5 Best Stress Free Divorce Tips can make a real positive difference in your life if you follow them. Today, our Surrey and Vancouver office shares the 5 best stress free Divorce tips. If you are divorcing or separating contact us across BC or in Calgary, Alberta. We have one of the largest, highly rated family law teams in Canada and 6 office locations to serve you.
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- Be honest about what really matters to you. Is it maximizing your time with your children, living in the house you love, having a fresh start? Often those who incur the most legal fees are those who are unsure of what they want or keep changing their mind. Your lawyer can help you get what you want, so don’t be shy about asking them to help you.
- Be reasonable. Try to put yourself in the other parties shoes. Barring good reason, if you would be upset with what you’re offering the other side, reevaluate what you’re doing. You will spend a lot of money, and likely lose if you don’t have a reasonable basis for asking for what you want.
- Hire a good lawyer. I cannot tell you how big of a difference this will make in the process, how much you spend, and how quickly you can resolve your conflict. The right lawyer will want to help you resolve the issues efficiently, and will give you realistic advice. Sometimes the lawyer who tells you the truth is better than one who gives you unrealistic expectations that they can’t fulfill. Also, its important to take the advice of your counsel, but do not be afraid to ask your lawyer clarification questions on things you do not understand. Don’t be embarrassed about what you are going through. An experienced family law lawyer won’t blink an eye, regardless of what you say as likely they’ve seen it all before. Even if you’re going through an amicable divorce, a lawyer can make sure any agreement you reach is honoured, regardless of future circumstances.
- Have your evidence for your lawyer ready to go. Document any strange things you may notice, including transfers of money, change in behaviour, and increases in debt.
- Get the help you need when you need it. Try to ignore the urge to manage this unbelievably stressful situation on your own. There are professionals who have been trained to help guide you through this process. Rely on them as you need. If possible, rely on your friends and family for support. They say a divorce is the second most difficult thing a person can go through, after the death of a loved one. You don’t need to do it alone.
We hope our 5 Best Stress Free Divorce Tips help you and your children move forward successfully. For more tips on how to better cope with a divorce click here.
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